Share a personal problem and ask your partner’s advice on how they might handle it.Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why?.After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire.If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet?.What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?.Tell your partner something that you like about them.When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?.Share with your partner an embarrassing moment in your life.Tell your partner what you like about them be very honest this time, saying things that you might not say to someone you’ve just met.If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share what would be important for them to know.Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share…”.For instance, “We are both in this room feeling…” How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?.How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s?.Share something you consider to be a positive characteristic of your partner.What roles do love and affection play in your life?.If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?.What do you value most in a friendship?.What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?.Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?.If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future, or anything else, what would you want to know?.If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?.Take four minutes and tell your partner your life story in as much detail as possible.If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?.For what in your life do you feel most grateful?.Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common.Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?.If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?.When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?.What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?.Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?.Would you like to be famous? In what way?.Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?.They increase in intensity from the beginning to the end. To start increasing closeness (or just get to know someone), here are the questions you can ask anyone from Dr.

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